After a chat with my sister, Glynda, and listening to her point out my options, I decided I could do the same. I use my pages to promote myself but I'm always worried that no one sees them. Sure, people "like" my posts, but I don't see any significant inrease in my book sales, so am I truly spending my time wisely? Is making money more important than connections with friends?
When I think of the number of authors who do the same thing I do...every day, regularly: Log on, share posts on Google, Pinterest, FB and Twitter. Sharing on Twitter takes much more time for me because I belong to Triberr, which requires that I login and approve up to 75 tweets to share for others in a reciprocial agreement...you know, you share mine and I'll share yours?
I also decided that while I love my FB friends, following family is often painful and depressing. While part of me is happy to learn of their plans, I wonder why I wasn't invited, or, even more, when I comment on a post they've made, I'm often shocked at the tone and intent they read into my words that were never meant to be there. So...what are my options?
I can deactivate my FB page, get rid of my author's page, and create ONE new page under a different name and recruit only friends that appreciate me. OR....I can leave things as they are and suck it up.
|Friends I connect with on FB - A mini-reunion.|
After giving my dilemma much thought, I've decided that few people would know me under another name, and why should I put them through one more step to be my friend? Because of slanderous comments on my older son's FB page and his lack of coming to my defense, I no longer follow his posts. I love him to the moon and back, but I guess I'm not nearly as thick-skinned as I'd like to think, so if I don't say anything, I can't open myself up to hurt. I've decided my best option is to stop commenting on other people's posts, unless of course I have something worthwhile to add, and spend my time doing other things. I have a layer of dust that could stand my attention. *lol*
The landscape of the industry has changed...especially with Amazon spearheading the sales market and so many people assuming self-publishing is the route to take. It may well be for the seasoned authors, but those who haven't learned the fundamentals through the editing process are creating a bad image for the rest of us. Then, add it the "trolls" who prowl Amazon, Goodreads and other public review sites, for books they can dissect or destroy, and you wonder why you still want to be involved. I can answer that...even after listing all the problems. I love to write. Even more...I'm addicted to FB.