Have
you ever wondered why life seems to pass more quickly as you get older? Each
year seems to go by faster and faster. (Wasn’t it just the 4th of
July?) You remember in vivid detail your
childhood Christmases, but now they rush by year after
year without making much of an impression. What's going on?
I’ve
heard it explained that the early years are full of first-time events - your
first date, the birth of your first child, that first big vacation, etc. First
occasions are novel events and we tend to make more detailed and lasting memories of those first times. When we repeat the
event, year after year, it is less likely to make a unique or lasting
impression.
This
doesn't just happen with life events, we can observe the same phenomenon in a
shorter space of time. For instance, the first couple of days of your 2-week
vacation seem long and leisurely, and the time goes slowly. You're thankful that you have two long weeks of this. But,
the next thing you know, it's almost over and you are heading home!
That
new romance? Seems like an eternity between those early telephone calls, but
before you know it, it's your 20th anniversary.
Think
about a new job. The first years go slowly and seem full of important
accomplishments, then the next many years rush by in a blur.
So
here is the key to slowing down the pace of life. As much as possible, take advantage of new and
unique experiences. When we go to the same places and do the same things, we
don't make distinct memories and time seems to fly by. Focus on positive
(rather than negative) past memories, try to live more in the present, and hold
a positive perception of the future - envisioning a future full of hope and optimism. In other words, use time wisely.
