WHY I
BECAME A WRITER
and other Stuff
By
Kathryn Meyer Griffith
Truthfully, what started me off as an author was
simply this: As a child, about eight or nine years old (the same time I began
to draw pictures in pencil and years before I began to dream about being a
singer with my younger brother Jim), I began reading books, science fiction,
historical romances and scary books from the library. I had six brothers and
sisters and though I had a loving mother and father, a loving family, there was
very little money. I can’t say we were poverty poor, but we were poor at times.
Sometimes our meals were scarce and we never had extra money for many toys or
outside entertainment. I think in my whole young childhood my father only took
us out to eat once. Try paying for seven kids and two adults. So we learned to
entertain ourselves. Played outside. Climbed trees and hid in deep dirt
gullies. Sang, howled really, outside at night on the swing set.
I loved to read. The library books were free and
plentiful. I’d sit on my bed, especially during the long summer days and
evenings (after chores were done, of course) and read one amazing book after
another. If I was lucky, with a chocolate snack or cherry Kool-Aid nearby.
Those books, those words on the page, took me away to other places, times and
worlds. It was magical. I got lost in
people-on-a-spaceship-going–to-some-faraway-planet science fiction books. There
was this one horse book when I was a kid that knocked me out, made me cry, and
laugh with joy at the end it was so real to me and so full of pathos because I
loved horses so much. It was called Smoky. Loved that book. Sigh. I never
forgot how those wonderful books made me feel…so free. So adventurous. So rich. Like I could be or do anything someday.
And when I grew up I wanted to create that magic myself for others. So…that’s why I began writing. And when I get depressed over my
writing at times, I remember that.
I remember vividly one day at school (I must have
been about 10 or so) when a big box of Weekly Reader books were delivered and
we each got to pick one to read. The smell of those new books in that box as I
looked at them, the excitement and awe of the other kids over the books and the
reverence for those authors, and I thought: Wouldn’t it be something if someday
a box of these books were mine…written by me? Oh, to be an author. People respect an author. It was the
beginning.
Then there’s also a second part to the question:
Why do I keep writing after 39 years? Because I can’t not write. I can’t stop.
The stories take over my heart and mind and demand to come out. It’s sort of
like birthing a baby (I have one real son and two grandchildren myself). You
carry them for a while, a short or long time span, and then once they’re born
(published) they go on to be their own individual entities that sometimes
continue to amuse and amaze you. Or disappoint you. Whatever.
This is
what it’s like to be a published author.
It’s
not like anything you would imagine. There’s excitement, the passion and
feeling of being right with the world, as the story is being created and the
words are tumbling out into the computer; there’s the exhaustion of writing
hours and hours, the doubt that your words will mean anything to anyone and why am I doing this? that creeps in but
that you have to chase away; there’s the pride in seeing the finished book,
either e-book or print, and finally there’s the feeling of unexplainable
happiness when someone says they read it and liked/loved it. The best response
I love to hear is: I couldn’t put it
down. The characters were all so real. I got carried away with it. Didn’t want
to leave the world you’d created. Wow. That makes the sometimes low pay and
grueling hard work all worthwhile. Because writing is hard work. The creating
and promoting anyway. Hour and hour, day after day, year after year. It’s your
life you’re using up. Precious time. You have to truly love it to give all that
up…to strangers.
Sometimes
people ask me: is it still fun?
Fun?
A strange way to put it. Sometimes, rarely, it’s fun. Mostly it’s hard work and
lots of solitary time alone. Writers live so much of their life in their make
believe worlds they get lonely. Lonely for the real world, real breathing
people and adventures. I know I do. But the writing won’t leave me alone until
I write down the words, tell the tale. The easiest way I can put it is when I’m
writing or dealing with my writing I feel like I’m doing what I was born to do.
Yes, I believe a writer is born to write – like an artist is born to paint and
draw; a musician to write or play music. As an artist myself I know I’m not
really happy, or fulfilled feeling, unless I’m writing, drawing or singing.
Creating. Though the singing and the artwork have gone more by the wayside as
I’ve become older…writing mostly takes all my free time now. Yes, writing does make me happy. Grin.
Except the rare times someone hates one of my books…and that happens, too. I’ve
finally learned that reading and loving a book or short story is subjective.
Some people love my stories, get them, and others…don’t. And that’s okay. We’re
all different people. That’s a
lesson a writer must learn. One person’s criticism is not a blanket criticism
of all your work or even that one work, it’s just one person’s opinion.
Is it lucrative? That’s a loaded
question and (though I don’t know why) most writers will not talk about how
much they make or a book makes. Maybe (this is just my theory) it’s because
most of us make so little it embarrasses us. There’s no way we could ever live on
it. It’s icing on the cake. Trim on the woodwork. The mid-level writers anyway.
The top (very rare) writers like Stephen King, Dean Koontz and many other
writers (especially some romance authors) make a very good living, but most
writers don’t. Ever. Oh, in my heyday in the 1980’s and early 1990’s I made
fairly good money with Leisure and Zebra paperbacks (and though at the time I
didn’t think it was good, comparing it with now, well, it really was good) ,
because back then the distribution and print runs were so large. I got a
smaller percent in royalties but there were more books out there selling for
me. So far the e-books and PODs (Print on Demand) aren’t selling that well, but
I get a much larger percentage. I’m
hoping in the next year by having all my old 10 novels out again (rereleased
between June 2010 and July 2012) and 2 new books I’ll see a gradual increase in
income. It’s an experiment, sort of.
Selling a small quantity each 3 months of 12 or more books might add up
to a nice sum. Or so I’m hoping. I’m marketing (a whole new thing in the
Internet world these days) a lot, seeking and getting great 4 and 5 star reviews,
joining reader and writer loops, guest blogging, etc. It’s never ending. Thing is I don’t know how much it all helps.
Eventually, I figure, I’ll find out. I’m an optimist always.
Do I
still enjoy writing? Sure. I love it. It’s
like breathing, eating, dreaming. It’s become part of me. Second nature. It
took me 39 years to say: I’m a writer.
And really feel like I wasn’t being a pretentious so-and-so or outright lying.
Took me all that time and 14 published books, 7 short stories (and more to come
hopefully) for me to feel deserving of the title. Even without the money telling stories is what makes me
feel…complete. Happy. Hey, look at me I’m
a storyteller! Ha, ha, now I just have to figure out a way to make it more profitable,
as well. Working on that. As one successful writer recently said to me: Just get the books out there…nothing else
matters. (Presumably good books, I’d add.) The rest will come. Gosh,
I sure hope he’s right. Cause I’m been working soooo hard.
Written by the author Kathryn Meyer Griffith this
sultry August 24th day of 2011 rdgriff@htc.net
A
word about Kathryn Meyer Griffith...
Since
childhood I’ve always been an artist and worked as a graphic designer in the
corporate world and for newspapers for twenty-three years before I quit to
write full time. I began writing novels at 21 and have had fourteen (nine
romantic horror, one historical romance and two mysteries) previous novels
published from
Zebra Books, Leisure Books, Avalon Books, The Wild Rose Press, Damnation Books
and Eternal Press.
I’ve been
married to Russell for thirty-three years; have a son, James, and two grandchildren,
Joshua and Caitlyn, and I live in a small quaint town in Illinois called
Columbia, which is right across the JB Bridge from St. Louis, Mo. We have two
quirky cats, Sasha and Cleo, and the four of us live happily in an old house in
the heart of town. Though I’ve been an artist, and a folk singer in my youth
with my brother Jim, writing has always been my greatest passion, my butterfly
stage, and I’ll probably write stories until the day I die.
Novels and short
stories from Kathryn Meyer Griffith:
Evil Stalks the Night
(Leisure, 1984; Damnation Books, July 2012)
The Heart of the Rose
(Leisure, 1985; Eternal Press Author’s Revised Edition out Nov.7, 2010)
Blood Forge
(Leisure, 1989; Damnation Books Author’s Revised Edition out February 2012)
Vampire Blood
(Zebra, 1991; Damnation Books Author’s Revised Edition out July 2011)
The Last Vampire
(Zebra, 1992; Damnation Books Author’s Revised Edition out October 2010)
Witches
(Zebra, 1993; Damnation Books Author’s Revised Edition out April 2011)
The Nameless One
(short story in 1993 Zebra Anthology Dark Seductions;
Damnation Books Author’s Revised
Edition out February 2011)
The Calling
(Zebra, 1994; Damnation Books Author’s Revised Edition out October 2011)
Scraps of Paper
(Avalon Books Murder Mystery, 2003)
All Things Slip Away (Avalon
Books Murder Mystery, 2006)
Egyptian Heart (The
Wild Rose Press, 2007; Author’s Revised Edition out again from Eternal Press in
August 2011)
Winter’s Journey (The
Wild Rose Press, 2008; Author’s Revised Edition out again from Eternal Press in
September 2011)
The Ice Bridge (The
Wild Rose Press, 2008; Author’s Revised Edition out again from Eternal Press in
November 2011)
Don’t Look Back, Agnes novella
and bonus short story: In This House
(2008; ghostly romantic short story out again from Eternal Press in January
2012)
BEFORE THE END: A Time of Demons (Out
from Damnation Books June 2010)
The
Woman in Crimson (Out from Damnation Books September 2010)
My Websites:
http://www.myspace.com/kathrynmeyergriffith
(to see all my book trailers with
original music by my singer/songwriter brother JS Meyer)
http://www.jacketflap.com/K.Griffith
http://www.shoutlife.com/kathrynmeyergriffith
http://www.goodreads.com/profile/kathrynmeyergriffith
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